The word bitch is connected to a long history of demoralizing and degrading women. Over the years the term has also began to be used toward men. Men find this extremely degrading and confrontational when they are insulted with the word, because they are then being derogatorily equated to a woman. Not just any woman; they are being equated to a "bitchy" woman, in which the word is transformed against them, with their very own perceptions and meanings of what a "bitch" is. The Urban Dictionary (urbandictionary.com) is a user generated dictionary, where users are allowed to form their meaning of words, including slang terms that typically wouldn't be found in a standard dictionary. The Urban Dictionary has hundreds of definitions for the word bitch, which can easily show the multiple roles this word plays or means within various different settings and contexts. One user defined the word on urbandictionary.com as,
"Was once referred to a female dog, but now is used in this context.
A woman that:So the confrontation when the word bitch is being directed at a man shifts, because these are typically the form the definition takes on. Then when it used toward a man, it not only emasculates by equating him to a woman, but also the term itself implies nothing good. Some may argue "D. A successful woman" is good, but when the term "bitch" replaces that character trait, it then still becomes degrading because accomplishments are not directly being recognized.
A) Will have sex with everybody, but you.
B) Won't do (what you in your feeble mind) want her to.
C) You work for, that tells you what to do, and you don't like it.
D) A successful woman.
E) A down right drama queen that makes yours, and everyones lives around her misrable.
F) A control freak that always thinks she is right, and constantly corrects everyone." (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=bitch&page=2)
Because of the long history of degradation connected to the term "bitch", it becomes difficult to fully accept the term being used loosely and taking on new meanings in a positive light. Some people may not mind being called a bitch, if it supposedly takes on a positive connotation, and I am not phased a whole lot by the term anymore because of its consistent use throughout our American culture; however, it does phase me if it's directed toward me. Personally I feel that this word comes with its consequences, and culminates repercussions our society internalizes when relating this word to gender. Whether it is being used towards a woman or man, the meanings we internalize associated with the word bitch still finds ways to recycle its purpose back to degradation and demoralization of human beings. Because this word's purpose shifts meanings depending upon the context in which it is used, people are able to adapt their own meanings of this word based on their experiences. With that being said, there are a lot of areas where this word can infringe or hurt others, especially when its context is misinterpreted.
As I mentioned earlier, the word has become common use within our culture. The most important problem with this that is concerning, is how our future generations will internalize this word, and how their interpreted meaning of the word bitch will impact the way in which they view or even respect women. Can this word continue being used so loosely without our society and culture suffering consequences in the ways they view women as equals? If this word continues to expand in meaning, and society witnesses a "bitch" is associated with being submissive to a male ( or the male dominated culture), can women move forward together? Or will this word continue to imply women being inferior to men? Will our society grow to accept strong independent women, without labeling them as bitches? For me I would much rather be called a strong, independent, smart, attractive, successful, etc. woman, than a strong, independent, smart, attractive, successful, etc. bitch any day. I want no association with the term. Personally, being called a woman, a lady, or even a chick ( which I also dislike to some extent) is a much better suited description or compliment, that I would take over being called a "bad bitch". I can handle the other terms, but a bitch to me will always be a degrading and demoralizing term that makes women seem inferior. We have to move above this ladies! "Bitch" is connected to a long past discriminatory towards women, and if we continue using the word so loosely, future generations will only be able to view women in such a way. It is nice to change bad things and make them new, but I wouldn't go as far as to saying the old meanings of the word have ever disappeared.